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Procrastination is a complex psychological
behavior that can be a huge road block to success in your
fitness program. For some, procrastination is just a
once-in-a-while nuisance; for others, it is a constant
nemesis which causes a person a great deal of unnecessary
anxiety. According to
www.psychologytoday.com, over 20 percent of the American
population are procrastinators. Currently there is no
evidence that gender and intelligence have anything to do
with a tendency to procrastinate. Age may have something to
do with it. A recent study has found that procrastination
begins in the middle to late twenties, decreases for the
next forty years and then increases again in the sixties.
Procrastination has a powerful affect on a
person’s thoughts, feelings, physical health, behavior, and
overall functioning. Symptoms often include: craving
diversion, ineffective working, last minute rushing, missed
deadlines, difficulty in making a start on a piece of work
or revision, nagging guilt, disappointment, self-disgust,
stress, and depression.
There are several different theories as to
what causes a person to procrastinate. According to Joseph
Ferrari, Ph.D., associate professor of psychology at
Chicago’s De Paul University, “Studies show that the
procrastination trait comes from the kinds of interactions
we have with our parents when we are young.” Most commonly
procrastinators come from households with an authoritarian
father, men who are cold and stern. Their children turn to
putting off tasks as a form of rebellion. It is a coping
strategy at home that doesn’t help them in the outside
world. The behavior then becomes part of them and over time
they begin to rationalize things in different ways.
Other reasons for procrastinating include:
poor time management, inability to prioritize, overload of
tasks at a specific time, anxiety about a task, difficulty
concentrating, negative self-talk, and avoidance of things
that are disliked and/or difficult.
Researchers suggest that there are three
types of procrastinators:
- The Thrill Seekers: these individuals
get a rush of euphoria by waiting to do things at the
last minute. The reasons they offer for their behavior
tend to relate to external causes: “I was busy at work.”
It sounds plausible and no one can verify it.
- Avoiders: these individuals often
fear failure or success. They are very concerned about
what others think of them. They’d rather have the world
think they lack effort than lack ability. The reasons
they give for their behavior has to do with matters that
are internal: “I don’t like shopping.”
- Decisional Procrastinators: they
can’t make up their mind, and often let others make
decisions for them.
How To Cure
Procrastination
- by Sandra L. Davis, Ph.D.
- Try breaking down a task into small
units that can be tackled individually.
- Practice the art of backward
planning. Start with your deadline and work backward
from there. To be done on a certain date, think about
where you need to be in the task during the week before,
and after that, and so on. Write out all the separate
tasks that are a part of the project. Working on the
whole project may feel overwhelming, while completing a
one-hour task is simple.
- Once you have divided a big project
into small units, you can reserve some time every day to
work on one of these. Don’t be fooled into thinking that
you always need large uninterrupted blocks of time to
make progress on an important project.
- Make a list of everything that needs
to be done on a project that can be completed in no more
than ten minutes. Not only will these seem manageable,
but mini jobs can be fit into odd moments throughout the
day.
- Use the “to do” lists and put them in
order of priority. Do what you can for the day and don’t
criticize yourself when the lowest priority items have
not been completed. The trick is to complete the highest
priorities first. Don’t get misled into thinking that
you have really had a productive day when all you have
done is a series of activities from the bottom of your
priority list.
- Acknowledge your fears and go ahead
anyway. Many people find it useful to think about what
it is they are afraid of and then imagine the worst that
could happen to them if they acted. Instead of allowing
in self-pity and criticizing the person who assigned you
the task, take the initiative to talk about your
concerns.
- If the problem is failure to take
action, you may need to take a look at what you are
telling yourself about the hazards of action. Are you
saying that not being able to do well means you are
incompetent? If one potential friend turns you down,
does that mean that you are not a likeable person? Does
one confrontation signal the end of a relationship?
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